Him...

Why do I love him? Well, let’s try to count…

1. He accepts me for who I am. Flaws and all.

2. He makes me smile… even when I’m upset.

3. He’s a goofball.



4. He’s tons of fun!

5. He’s quite the comedian. Sometimes…

6. He’s super smart.
&&Geeks are hot.

7. Ok, let’s face it… he’s quite handsome.

8. He makes me feel special and wanted.

9. He always tells me I’m beautiful.

10. He texts me at random times to tell me he’s thinking of me.

11. He always texts me good morning and good night.

12. He sent me roses at work, just because!

13. He writes me cute letters all the time.

14. He makes me feel like I’m the only girl in the room.

15. He loves the Gospel.

16. He knows a lot about the Gospel.

17. He lives the Gospel.

18. He’s always willing to serve and help others when he can.

19. I know he will always honor the Priesthood.

20. He’s honest, supportive, caring, “clever, magnificent… humble”. haha

21. He goes to chick flicks with me.

22. He cooks for me.

23. I get a note in the “love bucket” from him every Sunday at church.

24. He loves our country…
enough to fight for it.

*and everyone knows a girl loves a man in a uniform*

25. He makes me want to be a better woman.

26. He makes me believe I can do anything.

27. Everything is better with him.

28. He’s definitely my better half.

29. He has a beautiful singing voice.

30. When he kisses me…

and when he looks at me…

I swear, the world could end.

31. I know he will be a great companion.

32. And he will be a great father someday.

33. He’s passionate about things.

34. He has many goals! and a plan to make them happen.

35. He’s just flat out AMAZING!

36. He’s not afraid to talk about anything.

37. He knows exactly what to say or do to make me smile.

38. Come on, have you seen him smile?

39. He likes to be the center of attention.

40. He’s very “confident”.
Ok, ok… he’s cocky.

41. He makes one HOT cowboy. ;)



Brad Paisley, who?!

42. He is my best friend.
and he will always be.

43. I can trust him.

44. His beautiful blue eyes. lol
(inside joke)

45. Heavenly Father already told me that it’s right.


and many, many, many, MANY more reasons! He is truly everything I ever wanted and lots, lots more. Everyday he does something that makes me fall even more in love with him. He’s not perfect (I know that!) but he’s definitely my perfect and I cannot wait to see what the future holds for us.

If You Just Realize

Colbie Caillat - Realize

Take time to realize that your warmth is crashing down on in.
Take time to realize that I am on your side.
Didn't I, didn't I tell you?
But I can't spell it out for you.
No, it's never gonna be that simple.
No, I can't spell it out for you.

If you just realize what I just realized,
Then we'd be perfect for each other,
And we'll never find another.
Just realize what I just realized,
We'd never have to wonder,
If we missed out on each other now.

Take time to realize,
Oh, oh, I'm on your side.
Didn't I, didn't I tell you?
Take time to realize this all can pass you by.
Didn't I tell you?
But I can't spell it out for you.
No, it's never gonna be that simple.
No, I can't spell it out for you.

If you just realize what I just realized,
Than we'd be perfect for each other,
And we'll never find another.
Just realize what I just realized,
We'd never have to wonder,
If we missed out on each other oh.

It's not the same.
No, it's never the same,
If you don't feel it too.
If you meet me halfway,
If you would meet me halfway,
It can be the same for you.

If you just realize what I just realized,
Than we'd be perfect for each other,
And we'll never find another.
Just realize what I just realized,
We'd never have to wonder...

Just realize what I just realized,
If you just realize what I just realized... ooh ooh.
Missed out on each other now.
Missed out on each other now.

Realize, realize, realize, realize, oh

From This Moment Forward

From this moment forward my life has changed; they dye has been cast out. I have stepped over the line, the decision has been made. I am now a disciple of Jesus Christ. I won't look back, let up, slow down or be still.

My past is redeemed, the present makes sense, and my future is secure. I am done with low living, small talking, colorless dreams, tamed visions, cheap living and dwarfed goals.

I no longer need pre-eminences, positions, promotions or popularity. I don't have to be right, first, recognized, praised, regarded or rewarded. I now live by faith, lean on His presence, walk with patience, am uplifted by prayer, and labor with power. My face is set, my gait is fast and my goal is heaven.

My road is narrow, my way is rough. My companions are few, my guide is reliable, my mission is clear. I cannot be bought, compromised, detoured, lured away divided or delayed. I will not flinch in the face of sacrifice, hesitate in the presence of the adversary, negotiate at the table of the enemy, ponder at the pool of popularity or meander in the maze of mediocrity. I won't give up, shut up, or let up until I have stayed up, stored up, and paid up for the cause of Christ.

I must go until He comes, give 'til I drop, preach 'til all know, and work 'til He stops me and when He returns for His own, He will have no problem recognizing me, my banner will be clear having conquered all conflicts.

California YSA Conference
August 8th & 9th 2009

It Is Time I Got On With My Life

I have always looked back and wondered what my life would be like if I done things differently in the past. I constantly put myself down for dropping out of college. I wonder what it would be like if I hadn't wasted my days partying and throwing away the opportunity to get an education. I think of what I would be doing and how great things would be if I had focused on the things that really mattered and actually finished my degree. I think of how much more I could do now if I hadn't gotten myself into so much debt. I think of where I would be if I had never gone inactive after I was baptized in the Church. How much easier would my life be if I hadn't done sooooooooo many stupid things! It's one mistake after another. One regret after another! and I can't do anything about it now!

This past Sunday at church, Amanda gave the lesson and spoke of letting things go and just go on with your life. At the fireside that evening, the speakers touched on this as well. It's amazing to me how the Lord knows exactly what we need to hear! I really cannot change anything by sitting here thinking of what I could have done differently and wondering what it would be like now. The only things I have is today and I can only hope and prepare for tomorrow! I need to stop focusing on the past and putting myself down for things that I simply cannot change. I've already screwed up and I need to deal with the consequences now. As much as that sucks, I cannot avoid it! It's there. I'm only 23! I often feel like I am getting old and I'm running out of time. It's too late to do this or that is what I often tell myself. But really, its not too late! I can go back to school and I can eventually pay off all my debt and just forget of all the things that I can. I can do anything I set my mind to. I just need to stop looking at the past and get working on the future. It is time I got on with my life and forget the past!

Mosiah 26:20-24

20 Thou art my servant; and I covenant with thee that thou shalt have eternal life; and thou shalt serve me and go forth in my name, and shalt gather together my sheep.

21 And he that will hear my voice shall be my sheep; and him shall ye receive into the church, and him will I also receive.

22 For behold, this is my church; whosoever is baptized shall be baptized unto repentance. And whomsoever ye receive shall believe in my name; and him will I freely forgive.

23 For it is I that taketh upon me the sins of the world; for it is I that hath created them; and it is I that granteth unto him that believeth unto the end a place at my right hand.

24 For behold, in my name are they called; and if they know me they shall come forth, and shall have a place eternally at my right hand.

The Miracle of Forgiveness

If you know me, you know I'm definitely NOT a reader. It's something I wish I did more often, but I just don't do. I have been reading (or attempting to read, I should say) The Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimball for some time now but really hadn't gone too far with it. I'd read a little here and there and that was it. As of a few days ago, I cannot put it down! I've been reading a lot and come to realize that I am only at the beginning of the road of repentance and forgiveness. Since I was baptized in 2004, I've come and gone from the Church. I've had my periods of inactivity and my very short periods of "activity". Every time I've come back I've kind of expected forgiveness after a very short period of what I considered "active activity". I've come back, wanting to change my ways and for the most part, have changed them. Yet, still... nothing! Still no temple recommend, still no callings, still no "sign" (for lack of a better term) that I had been forgiven. I got frustrated and discouraged, angry and upset at the Bishop for telling me I had to wait a little longer. I thought I was doing everything I had to do and thought I was in "good terms" with Heavenly Father and I should be allowed to partake of all the opportunities and blessings of the Gospel . Little did I know, that is just the beginning. Yes, I have changed my ways! I have been "active" in that I go to church every Sunday and attend other church meetings. I didn't, however, understand that repentance is somewhat of a long road and one that needs to be traveled in order to receive the great miracle of forgiveness. There is a list of questions which President Kimball said he asked a young man who was trying to repent. Some of these are:

Do you wish to be forgiven?

How much did you study the scriptures before you trouble? How much since?

Are you attending meetings? Paying tithing?

Have you confessed your total sins?

Are you humble now? Is it a result of "being forced to be humble"?

Have you wrestled with your problems as did Enos? Has your soul hungered for your soul's sake? Did you "cry unto him" a day-long prayer and into the night and raise your voice high that it reached the heavens, as did Enos?

How much have you fasted?

How much suffering have you endured? Is your guilt swept away?

Of course I want to be forgiven! I didn’t ever really even look at my scriptures while I was inactive. I can’t say I have been studying them daily like I know I should. I am attending meeting regularly and paying close attention, being truly interested in what is said but I have not been actively participating in them. I think I’ve paid my tithing once or twice in all my time as a member of the Church. Once or twice!!! And I expect forgiveness when I cannot keep a simple commandment? I am so much in debt and have so many bills to pay (consequences of stupid decisions) that I have always told myself “I cannot afford to pay tithing” no matter how much money I have made. How can I NOT afford to pay tithing? Surely if I can go out and buy a $130 dress that I tell myself I “need” and will really only wear once, I can pay tithing. What is faith if not trusting the Lord to take care of me? I haven’t confessed all my sins yet (not entirely my fault) and I have A LOT to work on to be humble. I’ve discovered this whole new passion for food and I am, I guess, too selfish to give up two meals because of it and so, I haven’t done much fasting. I have not endured much suffering and my guilt has not been swept away because I am clearly ONLY at the beginning or the road.

I think the reason why I have always just “expected” things is because of the way my parents have treated me. In all these years that I’ve been away from home, I have made some pretty stupid decisions. I have made the same mistakes repeatedly and have not learned my lesson greatly in part because my parents are always there to clean up my mess. Anytime I am in any sort of trouble, they are there. I know that whatever I do, they will be there to make it better. I taken them for granted without thinking that tomorrow, they could be gone and NO ONE else is going to be there to get me out of the hole I’ve dug up for myself. I’m selfish and have taken advantage of their unconditional love many times. They have always handed me everything without me having to work very hard for it. I am When it comes to my parents, I am a selfish, spoiled brat! And its not something I am very proud of. I hate it! And I will have to work very hard to change that.

Anyway, so this journey has just begun. I have a long way to go, a long road to travel, much suffering to endure. I am sure there will be a lot of struggles, a lot temptation, a lot of praying, a lot of tears, a lot of need for comfort and blessings from Priesthood holders. As sad and difficult as that sounds, I also know I have an even longer road ahead of me to enjoy the blessings He has prepared for me after I have repented and am worthy to receive the great miracle of forgiveness. An eternity of joy and blessings after a very short (but what seems like a very long) period of suffering is definitely better than an eternity of suffering after a short period of fun and amusement.

Families Can Be Together Forever...

Yesterday I was talking to a childhood friend and The Church and eternal families came up. First off, I haven't talked to him in ages! and we just happened to find each other on Facebook. We started out with a normal "how have you been?" and "what are you up to?" conversation than later turned into a very sad and kind of disrespectful conversation. Marriage somehow came up and he was joking about how we should get married and whatnot. I mentioned I wanted to be married in the temple and to someone who is LDS, so I would have to turn him down. His reaction... "WTF! So you can't marry someone who isn't Mormon?" Of course, I can marry someone who isn't LDS, but I simply WON'T because I want to be married in the temple. He asked why and so I shared with him that I know you can be sealed to your partner and families for time and all eternity and that that was what I wanted for myself. He thought it was creepy and he said he wouldn't want to be with him family for eternity. How sad is that? Why wouldn't anyone want to be sealed to their family FOREVER?! I am SO glad to KNOW that this is possible and that it will happen someday. That when I leave this Earth, I will return to live with Heavenly Father and my family will be there with me too. It is amazing and it makes me very happy to know that families can be together forever through Heavenly Father's plan.

Right Back to Summer 2007

Do you happen to listen to a song and it takes you back in time and it's like you're there all over again? Today I heard Tim McGraw and Faith Hill's "I Need You" and it took me right back to the Summer of 2007. At this time, I was dating a guy whose name shall remain unsaid (although, if you know me, you know who it is). I was so ridiculously in love with him, it wasn't even funny! I was completely head over heels and regardless of how things ended, its the happiest I have ever been in a relationship. I was the most self-less person and my needs and wants came second to his. All I wanted was for this particular person to be happy and because of it, I was happy. Now, listening to that song makes me think of that and how I long to find that again. I've had several other relationships after this, but none have come close to it. I mean, I even moved in with a guy and I didn't feel half as much for him as I did for this particular person of Summer '07! I want to feel that way again! I want to be that much in love again that this other persons happiness is essential to my happiness. I'm sure he's out there someone and the Lord is preparing a way for us to meet, if we haven't already.

Standing Right In Front of You

Out on the street corner
Just like every morning I sit here
And I watch you walk my way
And even though I don’t know you
As you get closer I swear I feel
My heart start racing, aching
Maybe it’s in my mind
And maybe I’m only dreaming
And I swear you catch my eye
As you walk on by
Oh why you gotta leave me so blue

Baby why can’t you see
That I’m the only one for you
You could search the world over
But you’ll never find another so true
Cause if you’re looking for love
I’m standing right in front of you

I bet your heart, like mine
Has been broken by someone
We never should have given it to (oh no)
So we put up a wall to keep from falling so hard
It’s so sad
Cause there’s such good love inside
And I’ve been hoping that I might find
Someone who feels the same way
Someone to share my life
On this beautiful ride together
We could see it all through

Baby why can’t you see
That I’m the only one for you
You could search the world over
But you’ll never find another so true
Cause if you’re looking for love
I’m standing right in front of you

So this morning I’m just going to walk up and say hello to you
Cause if given a choice between love and being alone
I know which one
I know which one I choose
And give me a chance
I’d be a better man for you (I believe I would)
And open your heart girl
Let me make your dreams come true

You can search the world over
But I can take it to the moon
Cause if you’re looking for love
I’m standing right in front of you (yes I am)
Standing right in front of you
Open your eyes, I’m standing right in front of you
Just give me a chance baby
I'm standing right in front of you

Mmhh...

This morning as I was getting ready for work and thinking of how dull my life is here in Fresno I began contemplating the idea of moving. To Utah or Texas!! Where that came from? No idea! I don’t know ANYONE in either Utah or Texas, but they just popped right into my mind. I really don’t have anything that is really keeping me in Fresno. I mean, there is my family, friends and boyfriend and I would miss them but we can always keep in touch and they can visit. But, I mean, its not like I have some great job or career here that would make me second guess the idea of moving and I am not in school here, so that’s that. I think a change would be good for me. Just pick up and leave. A fresh start! That would be fabulous! Of course this isn’t like deciding I “need” a new pair of shoes and I instantly get up and go to the mall. I need to think about this… pray about it… and find out where I am supposed to be.

Just a Quick Little Update

It’s been a while since I last wrote something on here but a lot has been changing. I guess I just need to make this a habit and remember to write more often. Anyway, so since I last moved I have moved back to Fresno, started a new job, got into a relationship and have been making small changes in my life that have made a HUGE impact. I am SO much happier and things are really falling back into place. Actually, things are A LOT better than I even imagined they could be. Here’s why…

I am back in Fresno and living with my friend, Melissa. I thought I was going to have to go through the long, not so fun process of having to look for a place to live. The thought of having to maybe move in with someone completely new who I didn’t know wasn’t too exciting. Luckily, Melissa’s roommate will be moving out and so things worked out perfectly. It’s close to institute which is good since I registered for all THREE Summer classes. Go Me! Haha I am looking forward to them.

My new job is great. I work 10am – 6pm, which is awesome! I think it may even be better than my last job. He really knows why He works things out the way He does and good things really do fall apart so better things fall together. Because I don’t have to be at work at 8:00am, I can take the evening AND an 8:00am institute class in the fall. I am very excited about that as well. I am excited to learn new things at my new job and everyone here has been nice.

So this boyfriend of mine… he is all that I could’ve asked for and a whole lot more. That is all I will say about that. Well, at least for now.

Oh yeah, DONT text and drive!!

On my way back home, I was texting Alex while driving (yeah, I know... NOT a good idea! EVER!) but anway, I wasn't paying much attention to the road and of course didnt notice the COP driving right next to me!! As I looked up, he flashed his super bright light at me and I seriously thought he was going to pull me over! but luckily, he just flashed his light and drove away after I threw my phone in my purse. I never have such luck with cops. They ALWAYS pull me over for the dumbest things and I always (and I mean ALWAYS!!!!) end up with a ticket. I didnt get a ticket this time but I did get a good scare. I'm sure I wont be doing much texting while driving now. Or at least I'll be paying more attention to the road while I do. ha!!

Happy Sunday to Everyone!

I had an AMAZING day today!! Actually, I think "amazing" might even be an understatement. Anyway, I had a nice little drive to Fresno this morning... got lost for a bit... but no worries, I found my way. I went to the Valentine ward with Alex. I have never driven there from the 99... so it was interesting to find there is NO exit on Bullard like I thought there was and taking Polk to Bullard wasn't much help either. After my little detour, I made it to church! I was only at the Valentine ward for sacrament since I also wanted to visit the 3rd ward (they are much cooler but ssshhh... you didn't hear that from me!) I'm JUST KIDDING! I'm glad I went to the 3rd ward though. I enjoyed a great lesson by Armando (his first lesson ever!!!) during sunday school and Relief Society is always fun. After church, I met with my awesome home teacher, Mike and then I had a meeting with Bishop about some goals I've set for myself. I want to be able to go to the temple, so I have made it a goal to prepare for that and be worthy to get a temple recommend. I also CANNOT remember the last time I took Sacrament and if I can't remember, its been TOO long! These two are my main goals right now and I am determined to reach them. SO anyway, after church and my meetings I met with Alex again and went to his parent's restaurant where he made me lunch. Well, I kinda made him 'cause I refused to cook! Actually, I refuse to do a lot of things. Why does he put up with me? I don't know, but I'm glad he does 'cause I enjoy hanging out with him. We went to Woodward Park to read scriptures for a little bit afterwards. I didn't want to read... so he read and I listened. Well, I refused to read... he tried making me read but, of course, he failed! He also tried making me talk to a random guy about the church and give him a card. I was too scared to do it, so he did. Maybe next time I will. I am home and sleepy now, so this is it. There was a lot more I wanted to write about but cannot think of it at the moment. I am too tired from all the fabulous fun I had today. Good night world!

This Is My Prayer

I pray for faith. An stronger testimony, one that cannot be shaken. Acceptance and patience (A LOT of patience) so that I may accept that which He know is best for me and that it will come when He knows I am prepared for it. Selflessness. Humility. Charity. Love for everyone. My family to accept the Gospel. Knowledge. And to be able to become the woman I should be and leave the stupid, immature girl I've been behind. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

The Lord's Pattern for Making Decisions

"The pattern of the Lord is for His children to make decisions based upon eternal truth. This requires that your life continue to be centered in the commandments of God. Thus, decisions are made in accordance with unchanging truths, aided by prayer and the guidance of the Holy Ghost. In addition to your own strength and capacity, you will enjoy divine inspiration and power when needed. Your actions will be predictable and will bless the lives of all in the circle of your influence. You will have a meaningful life of purpose, peace, and happiness."There is no guarantee that life will be easy for anyone. We grow and learn more rapidly by facing and overcoming challenges. You are here to prove yourself, to develop, and to overcome. There will be constant challenges that cause you to think, to make proper judgments, and to act righteously. You will grow from them. However, there are some challenges you never need to encounter. They are those associated with serious transgression. As you continue to avoid such mistakes, your life will be simpler and happier."

Richard G. Scott, "Living Right," Ensign, Jan. 2007, 13

Yay for Interviews!

I have TWO interviews tomorrow! YAY! :) One is for a receptionist position with Quality Paint and Body, Inc. in Visalia and the other with Primerica Financial Services, also in Visalia. I am SO excited!! So, I went to Quality today to leave a resume after I saw the ad in the paper. I wasn't too sure about it at first when I googled the address and found it was a body paint and body shop, I thought it was going to be some random shop or something. Anyway, to my surprise it was very nice. The second one I am not too sure about. I went to the Tulare County Job Fair on Wednesday and that's where I met the representative for Primerica. He called me and said he was very impressed by me and really wanted to meet with me. I guess that's a good thing, but I am not entirely sure what the position is all about. He did say there was some sales involved. I guess I will find out tomorrow. Maybe one of these is the one! *crossing fingers*

When Is A Job Coming?

So this job hunt is beginning to get frustrating! It's only been been a month (and I say "only" because it's nothing compared to how long some other people I know have been unemployed) but it seems like it's been a year! I always joked about how nice it would be to be able to stay home and not have to do anything but really, it sucks! A LOT!! No job=no money, No money=not doing things I want to do and, of course, having to live at home! Ugh!! I'm trying to stay positive but it seems like a job will never come! :( I'm sure there's something to learn from this and that it will all be okay. At least that's what I tell myself when I start getting bummed out about it and it seems to be working. Another thing helping me stay positive is my family. I am eternally grateful for them! They are helping SO much to get me through this. Yeah, I complain about being home all the time and not being able to do everything I want but really, what would I do without them?!? Mom and I were talking about all the people losing their jobs who need to provide for their families. How are they doing it!?! I mean, I have bill to pay and a car payment to make but its nothing compared to having to provide for a family, make a car AND mortgage payment! I'm SO glad I'm not in that situation. I know that once I find a job everything will start falling into place again. I am looking forward to that day. :)

Easter Sunday

I had a fabulous Easter Sunday! I woke up early and went to church... in Fresno!!! I absolutely love the 3rd ward and don't want to leave it! I was very happy to see everyone there and very grateful for that opportunity. Surprisingly, the drive there wasn't bad at all either. It was a beautiful morning and Mr. Keith Urban kept me company. After church, I drove back to Porterville and spent time with my family. We had a great time and the kids loved hunting for eggs. Hope everyone had an amazing bunny day!